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 Questions to Ask When 

Preparing for Marriage


Questions to Ask When

Preparing for Marriage


In this lesson, I am going to discuss some questions that every individual who expects to enjoy his or her marriage should ask. It's going to be more of religion but I think there is also stuff that is not meant for only religious people but for everyone who expects to be happy in marriage. These questions cover children, worship, how to handle conflict, entertainment, etc. Don't skip since all are very important.

Now let's dive into the questions.


It's just a summary as I don't want to bore you with unnecessary words as usual. 

Let continue ⏩ 


WORSHIP AND DEVOTION

How important is corporate worship? What about other kinds to see where each other is on various biblical doctrines? How do you decide what can remain different with

What do you believe about...everything?

Worship and Devotion

out jeopardizing the relationship? 

Husband and Wife

accountability/support group? 

What would our family devotions look like? Who leads in this? 

about our lives and future, reading the Bible together)?

What are expectations about situations where one of you might 

food, and household stuff)? 

(prayer, reading, meditation, memorization)

What are your daily personal devotional practices? 

How are tasks shared in the home (finances, cleaning, cooking,)


HUSBAND AND WIFE 

What is the meaning of headship and submission in the Bible? 

What is the importance of music in life and worship? 

Are we doing this now in an appropriate way (praying together 

What is an ideal nonspecial evening? 

be alone with someone of the opposite sex? 

and in our marriage? 

What are the expectations for togetherness? 

How do you understand who initiates sex and how often? 

washing dishes, yard work, car upkeep, repairs, shopping for 

Who does the checkbook or are there two?


CHILDREN 

 When should they go to bed? 

If and when, should we have children? Why? 

Public school?

How do you make money decisions?

How many cars? New? Used? 


LIFESTYLE 

Own a home or not? Why? 

What are the appropriate ways to discipline them? How many 

What kind of neighborhood? Why? 

Lifestyle

View of money in general?

What are the expectations of time spent with them and when 

How far apart? 

What signs of affection will you show them? 

How many? 

What about school? Home school? Christian school? 

Where will you buy clothes? Department store? Thrift store? 

strikes before they’re … whatever? 

What are the standards of behavior? 

Would we consider adoption? 

In between? Why?


ENTERTAINMENT  

How much money should we spend on entertainment? 

Should we have a television? Where? What is fitting to watch? 

What are the criteria for movies and theater?

Should the wife work outside the home? Before kids? With kids?


ANGER/CONFLICT

What makes you angry? 

Who should bring up a bothersome issue? 

What if we disagree both about what should be done and 

How many toys? Snowmobile, boat, cabin? 

How do you handle your frustration or anger? 

Will we go to bed angry at each other? 


WORK

Who is the main breadwinner? 

How much? 

guidelines for the kids?

What kind of vacation is appropriate and helpful for us? 

What is our view of getting help from friends or counselors?

Conflict

How often should we eat out? Where? 

kids at home? After kids?

What are your views of daycare for children? 

items that could affect our relationship? (allergies, cancer, eat



FRIENDSHIP 

Is it good to do things with friends but without a spouse? 


HEALTH AND SICKNESS 

Do you have any habits that adversely affect health?

Do you have, or have you had any, sicknesses or physical problems?

What determines where you will locate? Job? Whose job? 

What do you think about exercise and healthy eating? 

ing disorders, venereal disease, etc.) 

Do you believe in divine healing, and how would prayer relate 

Friends

What will you do if one of you likes to hang out with 

Church? Daily? 

someone the other doesn’t?



Hope you enjoyed it? Didn't you?

You can comment below for us to know your demand.

I recommend the book "Preparing for Marriage" by John Piper.


Thanks so much.







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